"Fetish" has several meanings: a. It's something that is supposed to have magical or spiritual powers, b. An object of unreasonably extreme attention or veneration, c. Something which arouses sexual desire, and may be required for sexual gratification. Although fetish is a word with diverse meanings, the latter, which is associated with sex, has gained the most popularity.
The word fetish has its roots from the 15th century Portugese word feiticio which means false power, object or charm. Talismans were revered as fetish (beads, charms, totems), and the fetishists were those who worshipped the bizarre. In later years, however, the connotation of the word took on an entirely different and sexual meaning.
Fetishes come in varied kinds: media, form and animate. Material is obsessed over in a media fetish. Examples are leather, silk, nylon and latex. In a form fetish, the shape of the object has great importance. Lingerie, stiletto heels, and knee-high boots belong in this classification. Parts of the human body are also considered fetishes.
Feet, hair, breasts, butt, nose are some of the most common, and since these are part of the human body, they are called animate fetishes. In fact, any object can be turned into a fetish. This obsessive fixation leaves some people uncertain if they even have a fetish or not, while others think that having a fetish is a sign of perverseness.
If the fetish interferes with a persons' relationships, then it is wise to seek help from a professional. Here are some of the most favourite fetishes among the human species: Taut tummies make men and women alike somewhat crazy. Although some men rather like it when a woman has tummy with a teensy little pot, others are simply disgusted with a stomach that protrudes or hangs loosely.
Body piercing is a favourite of the younger crowd, usually from ages 18-35. Pierced bellybuttons, tongues, nipples, eyebrows and even penises are a major turn on. Men especially love tongue rings because of the heavenly feeling they experience when the cool object rubs against the penis during oral sex. While most men would like to settle down with a sweet woman, the "bad girl" look will forever be a fixation.
Leather, rubber, vinyl and latex all give a rather pornographic quality to a sexual encounter. The sight of the woman moving around clad in these materials is already a tease in itself. Add a pair of handcuffs and leather whip, and you'll find yourself in the new millennium where women dominate and guys submit.
No, it's not just on TV or in the movies: a lot of women love to order their men in bed like slaves, smack them and spank them. Meanwhile, guys enjoy having those things done to them. Why? Maybe because most of them are tired of performing every single time.
Some guys make it a requirement for their dates to have beautiful feet or toes. Men enjoy kissing, sucking and biting a woman's feet. Women, on the other hand, love to suck men's fingers as though it is a penis. Red lipstick and red-lacquered fingernails are the cliché of the '80's, but some guys are still infatuated with it.
A woman's nails running down their back and red lipstick smudged all over gives them a feeling of adulterated sex. One of the most favoured fetishes among guys is hair. It is an ultimate turn-on, whatever the color and length. Some are into pigtails and ponytails, probably because of the illusion that these hairstyles evoke: they have a fondness for younger women, and these hairstyles make them feel as if they are gratifying their desires.
Voyeurism is more common in men-a lot of guys find it easier to achieve orgasm while watching porn or another couple in the act. Women are not as voyeuristic, but a few admitted that they like being watched when having sex.
Friday, August 13, 2010
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Adult Toy Buying Guide
Adult sex toys, are supposed to help you attain a high level of pleasure and before going out to buy one, there are basic questions that you have to answer. For starters, you should consider the shapes that appeal most to you, color preference, materials used and whether you want to get an orgasm when using it or not. Having a clear answer to these questions will go a long towards ensuring that you make a wise buy.
Vibrators are among the top most considerations you could settle for once you decide to invest in these items. There are available in varying types and for this reason, it is important to understand the kind of effect you want to achieve. In this regard, you can choose vibrators that concentrate on your G-spot, anal or the clitorises. In addition to this, you should also note that they come with varying vibration levels and for this reason, you should select one that matches up to your needs ideally. Another major type you could choose is the dildos and these come in varying types too. These include; traditional dildos, anal dildos, bead and ball and strap on harnesses.
Ideally, it is important to note that there are sex toys for men and women and for this reason, it is imperative to weigh your sex first before going out to purchase the same. If you are a woman, buy those that concentrate on nipples and clitorises while if you are a man you should consider investing in toys such as ticklers, masturbators, pumps and extenders among others. Since there are several options available in the market, it is important to ensure that you weigh your needs carefully before making any purchase.
Before going out to buy adult sex toys, make sure that you understand your needs since this is the only way through which you can ensure you get sex toys that meet your fantasies.
Vibrators are among the top most considerations you could settle for once you decide to invest in these items. There are available in varying types and for this reason, it is important to understand the kind of effect you want to achieve. In this regard, you can choose vibrators that concentrate on your G-spot, anal or the clitorises. In addition to this, you should also note that they come with varying vibration levels and for this reason, you should select one that matches up to your needs ideally. Another major type you could choose is the dildos and these come in varying types too. These include; traditional dildos, anal dildos, bead and ball and strap on harnesses.
Ideally, it is important to note that there are sex toys for men and women and for this reason, it is imperative to weigh your sex first before going out to purchase the same. If you are a woman, buy those that concentrate on nipples and clitorises while if you are a man you should consider investing in toys such as ticklers, masturbators, pumps and extenders among others. Since there are several options available in the market, it is important to ensure that you weigh your needs carefully before making any purchase.
Before going out to buy adult sex toys, make sure that you understand your needs since this is the only way through which you can ensure you get sex toys that meet your fantasies.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Boost your libido- sex toys are here to stay
Sex toys are talk of the town these days. No longer do people hide behind doors and think of sex as a taboo. People are ready to experiment, explore and have fun. Sex toys not only help you masturbate but also enhance and increase your libido. You can use them as whatever you like. Seduce you partner into bed and blow his mind off by using these sex toys. Paint and draw on each other with edible paint and lick it off from all those sensitive areas and curves of their body. It truly will be one thrilling experience. Love undressing your partner? Try out those edible panties and other types edible underwear and eat them right off while you strip each other! Doc Johnson gives you a wide range of the best sex toys available, to choose from. Mostly sex toys are used for masturbation. Masturbation and self stimulation is actually very healthy. It is as healthy as having sex. Every time you have an orgasm, your body releases several "happy hormones" which in turn bust your stress and burn calories. Orgasms also reduce the risk of heart related troubles. So while you are at it, why not try out something different? Using sex toys is nothing sick. It's not just meant for gay people and sex maniacs as many think it is. Anybody is free to make use of these to reach a higher level of sexual pleasure, with or without their partners.
Anal sex toys are great fun if you enjoy that kind of pleasure. Anal beads, prostate massagers, etc. are some of the anal sex toys which you can try out, anal beads are small balls or bumps placed mostly on a string. Put them in and pull them gently one by one and scream out with a mixture of pain and pleasure as the beads start popping out. Dildos are very popular also. They are mostly shaped as the penis and are available in different shapes, sizes and colour. It is always better to choose the bigger ones as they sure will make you go crazy with satisfaction. Vibrators are also meant for this purpose. But they are meant for both man and women. Cock rings, pocket pussies and cock harnesses are those types of sex toys which are meant to delight men. They prolong your erection and help you moan with pleasure as they can be wrapped around the base of your penis tightly making the orgasm more enjoyable. Many companies also manufacture men's underwear with in-built cock rings! Are you totally into sadistic sex and BDSM? Then sex toys will definitely heighten your sensations and experiences in bed. Bondage cuffs of different colours and materials, sleepsacks, trap chairs and bondage tape are just some of the hundreds of BDSM. You can tie up or handcuff your partner or strap them to the chair or bed. Use the various types of special fun-sex-toy-canes to hit out and spank your partner to make him or her cry out in unbearable pleasure while you gain your sexual satisfaction.
You can get all these toys in stores or get them online. There is a whole new world of sexual experience waiting to be discovered. So drop your inhibitions and start experimenting.
Anal sex toys are great fun if you enjoy that kind of pleasure. Anal beads, prostate massagers, etc. are some of the anal sex toys which you can try out, anal beads are small balls or bumps placed mostly on a string. Put them in and pull them gently one by one and scream out with a mixture of pain and pleasure as the beads start popping out. Dildos are very popular also. They are mostly shaped as the penis and are available in different shapes, sizes and colour. It is always better to choose the bigger ones as they sure will make you go crazy with satisfaction. Vibrators are also meant for this purpose. But they are meant for both man and women. Cock rings, pocket pussies and cock harnesses are those types of sex toys which are meant to delight men. They prolong your erection and help you moan with pleasure as they can be wrapped around the base of your penis tightly making the orgasm more enjoyable. Many companies also manufacture men's underwear with in-built cock rings! Are you totally into sadistic sex and BDSM? Then sex toys will definitely heighten your sensations and experiences in bed. Bondage cuffs of different colours and materials, sleepsacks, trap chairs and bondage tape are just some of the hundreds of BDSM. You can tie up or handcuff your partner or strap them to the chair or bed. Use the various types of special fun-sex-toy-canes to hit out and spank your partner to make him or her cry out in unbearable pleasure while you gain your sexual satisfaction.
You can get all these toys in stores or get them online. There is a whole new world of sexual experience waiting to be discovered. So drop your inhibitions and start experimenting.
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